Book: THE QUALITIES AND ESSENTIAL INGREDIENTS OF A GOOD SUCCESS

THE QUALITIES AND ESSENTIAL INGREDIENTS OF A GOOD SUCCESS 

The Qualities and Essential Ingredients of a Good Success

© Peter David (Destiny Empower)

          2016

           

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TABLE OF CONTENTS.

Dedication

Introduction  

Chapter One: Dream ‘A’ Dream ………………………

Chapter Two: Extraction of Dreams (The Dreaming Process) …………………………………………………..................

Chapter Three: Criteria for the achievement of goals ………  

Chapter Four: The stepping ladder to Success ………………..

Chapter Five: The Master Key …………………………………….

Chapter Six: Weep No More! ………………………………..

Chapter Seven: Live by the standard of His Words ……….  

Chapter Eight: Guidance and Counseling (G&C) ……….  

 Chapter Nine: Who My Wife Is? ………………………

 Chapter Ten: Who My Husband Is?  …………………

Chapter Eleven: Knowing the mind of God ……………..

Chapter Twelve: (a) Introduction into a Christian Home   

 (b) A Christian Home the Christ place of habitation ……………………………………………………………………………..

 Chapter Thirteen: Commentaries …………………….

DEDICATION

 This publication is dedicated to all blessed, talented and gifted children in the family of Mr.  & Mrs. David Motunrayo Ajayi.

It is when you refused to be defeated in the battles of life; that you become a champion of your generation!  

ACKNOWLE DGEMENT

I can never be an ungrateful Son to my eternal best Father, the most powerful God. For installing me as His representative in this world of the mixture of good and evil. Dear Father, I loved the way you fathered me, so thanks for the given grace, sufficient love, care and protection and kudos for the descended Holy Spirit on me.

In the world of trials, pressures, wrong advices, opposition, persecution, hatred, rejection and others. There is always a price to acquire something worthwhile. In the case of LOVE? Be ready to sacrifice!

Indeed you paid every price that demands self sacrifice. You disappoint not my trust of been capable to handle all the tasks placed before you and despite of all trials, temptations, and challenges that comes our ways in the process of fighting to fulfilled our destinies and purposes, which in return will make us great achievers.         

 Thanks for the unusual sacrifice of love, faith, courage, confidence, hope, believe, and assurance. You are a wonderful friend.  Kudos!

Terah Yakubu (T-bright) you are part of my sweet memories in life, a friend who often took less care of himself to sort out the best possible welfare of a friend and makes that his priority. Finally appreciation to all well wishers, friends, and fans for every support and contribution given as your afforded penny for the accomplishment of this book. Thanks. 

                                     INTRODUCTION

Holy Spirit you are my best teacher, so there is no pressure on me to teach, I speak, but you teach, so it is now your time of manifestation!

Whenever our time does not correspond with God’s time, then we should host patience. In God’s dealings with you; two things you should pray for are: Never to be ahead of his time; and never to be behind his time.

Patience is not laziness, as some think.

It implies not getting the right thing in a wrong way or in the wrong time.

By phrase; patience is waiting for my hot meal to gets cool to avoid mouth disaster.

Go with me into the college of thought and think: if your destiny can be tied down by human factors. If it could then many great men would have not been heard about.

Battles are won by listening to godly advice and making a lot of plans. (Proverbs 24:6)  

How sure you are that success is certain? But still success is real.

Dear readers, it pays a price to get a prize.

Life is full of stories about men who gave up on their dreams of success due to one obstacle or another;

Life doesn’t often give us all we want. Life is like a movie, you are the actor and you must always come out tops; young people are the principal forces of their lives regardless of their background.

Today you should keep your hopes high but don’t bank on anything yet.

Life is all about exchange (trade by barter) where a man with experience and a wealthy man meet together for exchange, the man with experience will get wealth while the man with wealth will acquire experience.

No man was born ‘on top’ but all men were born to be on top.

No man is great until he dare to, and no man succeeded without a dream of success. You are never great but until you find something special than you; and wish to dedicate yourself on its behalf. You are never a Christian but until you paid up that price called ‘FAITH’. Great people are ordinary people with an extra ordinary amount of determination. There’s no doubt on a fact that, the plan made yesterday was the product of this book; and the plan makes today will determine tomorrow’s stories. The price for success is not much but the courage to dare is the main cost of the prize. Success is certain! But to those who are ever ready to liberate and activate the enthusiasm power within them. There is a force called power within every mankind. You were born with thousand of this power, but it won’t work until you liberate and activate it, then shall you see the marvelous result at the end of the process.

This book is to create influence by educating the readers on the qualities and essential ingredients for a good success. Allow the ideas presented in this book bring the most best out of your life; and again do not use your present situation as a pointer to your future stories. Be bold of the greater things.

You are somebody even if the people around you see you as no body. This book proofs the assurance of success because you have been destined to succeed. And it could likewise helps you negotiate and nurture your own personal dreams.

The author: Peter David (Destiny Empower)

                                   

                             

Chapter One

                        

       DREAM A DREAM.

           One night Joseph had a dream. (Genesis 37:5a)

When I use the word “dream” the reference is not those shadowing images that flicker through our minds when we are asleep. No; the dreams I’m saying about are the indistinct hopes, the far-off vision, the faint stirrings of the imagination that come when we are in the earliest stages of planning something worthwhile. Every one of us has a dream that we hope to see become a reality either with positive or negative impact. To be successful you must first have a dream. And dreams know not boundaries of age, or race, or nationality. If you dream something long enough and hard enough, a door seems to open and through that door come mighty forces called “Enthusiasm power” that will guide and support you in your efforts to make the dream come true.

If your heart is conducive for the dream seed, and you nurtured it as expected, it will grow in to reality, but if not nurture it will die without being fulfilled.

I assured you that! “Great people are ordinary people with an extra ordinary amount of determination,” no matter the dream in your heart today; hold on, hang on it, because whatever dream God has put in your heart, do become a reality. Note! Delay is never denial so hold on. And again, do not be intimidated by the opposition and the possibility of failure, but keep your eyes on the rewards of fulfilling your dreams. Because if there is no trials there won’t be a testimony “Crown.” It’s a matter of time before a seed becomes a tree; before a child becomes a man. Before a rookie become a guru. It’s all matter of time consistence builds a continuous practice through time. Persistence nourishes your consistent efforts against time. Patience carries you safely to desired end in time. A seed might appear dead and forever buried. A dream might seem ridiculous and absurd. A vision might look vague and wearied

But a forest does start as a seed. A great harvest is always initiated by a dream. A mighty accomplishment was once a time vision, wrapped up in an ordinary man’s womb – the mind. All these successfully withstood the test of time. Everything is wrapped up within time; the past, present, and future.

A moment, a period, forever, and eternity is all a matter of time.

Keep the dream on, keep the struggle hot, do not give up the fight for success; because in no time that dream will come real and you will be celebrated in its time.

“A person who risks nothing does nothing, has nothing and is nothing. Only a person who risks is free.” 

             

          

                        Chapter Two

EXTRACTION OF DREAM (DREAMING PROCESS)

We humans make plans, but the LORD has the final word; we may think we know what is right, but the LORD is the judge of our motives.

We make our own plans, but the LORD decides where we will go. (Proverbs 16:1, 2, 9.)

We may make a lot of plans, but the LORD will do what he has decided. (Proverbs 19: 21).

“Human mind is a fountain of mix up thoughts and imagination of good and evil.”

Just like a seed that goes through the process of growth to become a tree and bear fruits, and a woman that waits nine months to hold her baby in her arms, so also your dream can not happen or come to pass instantly but has to go through a process. As an author of this publication; there’s one happening that has never stops amazing me on the current subject of discussion a “dream”. Though there are several dreamers among us, but many of them lack knowledge to explain how it works.

I mean some people do not for real identify their personal life’s dream (they are gamblers).

By neglecting their dreams and to either steal, or borrow another person’s dream. Such attitude could either originate from a contaminated mind envying the achievement of other persons, it often happened to envious and greedy people.

SCHOLARS AS BEST SUITED EXAMPLE: What could be the probability of all one thousand students in twenty different schools and colleges of a nation become either medical doctors, lawyers, professors, accountants or writers as common ambition of every opportune students in colleges?

Scholars are good at gambling because they always wish and desire to be in a field of majority, and with the above sense of mentality we have launched a competitive ground for ourselves and the grandchildren to come. It is an acceptable fact that only few were called to be, but today many have been by the influence of desire and ambition, so this has disclosed a very clear truth why we lack the genuine and qualified specialists in different fields of career and profession.

The questions you should ask yourself are that I developed an ambition or desired to be is it a divine call for me to be? What effect or contribution will that make on my destiny?

Is that the purpose of God for me? Or

I gambling wish to be?

I was once a victim of wrong ambition and dream; during my secondary school days, my prioritized ambition and desire was to become a medical doctor, and the whole thoughts behind this ambition was the believe that medical doctors tend to be the richest people in the world, so as far as I dreamt to be rich in life therefore I ought to be a medical specialist. This was a wrong and destructive ambition. Even as I am not in a medical field, I am fulfilled, I am today a teacher of God’s word, destiny empower, founder of Destiny Empowerment Global Ministries, a writer and the copyright owner of this publication.

NOTE: Whenever you have a dream thoroughly examine it first, then work toward it, but if such dream resulted from selfishness, envious, greediness attitudes, and personal benefit instead of general benefit; such a dream is vague and destructive.

I have a jump out secondary school mate with no intention to continue his education, but day after day he always come to me to announce “Sanjo (my dialect name) I wants to join the police force work.”

People may be pure in their own eyes, but the LORD examines their motives.

Whenever he finished making his ambition known to me, the next action was to ask “Monday (his name) what impression gear up your interest to join police force work?”

His regular replies was “because I won chop for road,” the above reply expressed unhidden truth that he want to be collecting bribes as all people known it to be the common way of earning by the police men.  

But do not forget the first chapter of this book: Dream ‘a’ dream, and the next stage after a dreaming process is the extraction of a dream. Why I called that a dream extraction process? It is because the thought of all men are often indefinite, human thoughts are often accompanied with some source or elements of impurities.

The fastest and easiest means of reaching the top ‘Becoming great’ is complying with the facts above.

Take a little study of the word “EXTRACTION” as you do that you will get to realize that the word extraction as used in this book means getting, deriving, determining, finding, and taking out the best out of the mixed up thoughts or complicated matters, as the case may be during and after your dreaming process.. Imagine if the refinery industries could be more committed at practicing ‘extraction’ Akin to ‘refining’ which was their major goal and objective in serving the nations (for the reason of making some useful substances available for our own personal and general use; and such products are petrol, gas, kerosene, coal, steel etc.) Then think of how much more of its application to your daily dreaming process. When gold is melted, impurities float to the top and can be skimmed off. Steel is tempered or strengthen by heating it in fire. In the same way is the extraction of dream in our dreaming process refine and strengthen our faith, believe and the possibility of fulfilling those dreams. It is real that you have gotten temporal comfort base, but that shouldn’t be your best place, don’t quit trying because you are never a loser until you quit trying.

Your dream neither weak nor sick, but you the dreamer do, so the solution are those ideas you have just acquired from this chapter. 

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